Day: **Saturday, August 9
Time: 5-7pm
Location: Less Dead Studio in Poughkeepsie, NY
Address: Provided in vetting approval email (see below)
Ages: 18+
Facilitated by: Kyla Uttu of Spicy Test Kitchen
Service is hot. So why do some scenes fall flat?
Maybe the energy gets muddy. Maybe you’re offering to hold space, but the container doesn’t quite hold. Maybe you thought you were synced up, but something feels off. Or maybe the hands-on part is just…meh.
This workshop digs into the foot-focused service scenes that don’t quite land because of three common, very fixable missteps:
We start with the internal layer: what do you actually want? What are you offering? What are you asking for? Then we move into how to voice it clearly, negotiate it well, and stay in touch with it throughout the scene.
What energetic role are you embodying, and does it match what was agreed upon? We’ll explore how dynamics get scrambled, how to stay in integrity with your part of the equation, and how to read subtle cues to balance intention, energy, and action.
No guess-and-grab here. You’ll learn simple, effective techniques to offer foot-focused conscious touch that feels good (for both of you). You’ll also practice requesting and making real-time adjustments with opportunities to give and receive in a consent-forward space.
This isn’t a one-size-fits-all protocol. It’s an invitation to refine your approach, deepen your dynamic, and bring more intentionality and enjoyment to the foot-focused service scenes you’re already having (or dreaming of).